friendship aaj kal...

Remember K2H2...srk had said, "pyaar dosti hai"...and assuming the statement to be correct....i say,"dosti pyaar hai"...
friendship is perhaps the most beautiful of all emotions...it is the culmination of everything precious to the human soul...love...care...companionship...
our quest for true friendship carries on throughout life...we search for someone who would accept us as we are...without any terms and conditions...without any rules and regulations... someone who would pull us back on the right track when we stray...someone who would listen to our mundane talks...who would sit with us quietly when we want to be left alone...and hold our hand when we feel lost.....
once while describing me...a friend had praised me for being a good and patient listener. yes...i really can sit and hear anyone talk endlessly on anything... i've accquired this habit primarily to accumulate new ideas and assimilate them...and of course in the process make new friends...!!
if you want to talk about racing cars...am there for you...you wanna talk about literature...i'm there for you...politics...i'm there...social issues...i'm still there...creativity...yes...i'm there...
if you talk in french i'll learn it for you...just to be your friend!
i feel, mutual respect and selflessness are two virtues that a true friend must possess. possessiveness and overprotectiveness can be fatal to a friendship.
i'm lucky to be blessed with a true friend....we are poles apart but we've been best buddies for the past 20 and a half yrs!! we've know each other from the time when we didnt even know what friendship was! we've had our own share of fights and quarrels...even battles!! but nothing could separate us...!! she's always there to hear me out...no matter how weird or stupid my ideas are. with her in my life i have no worry...no fear of being lonely...!! i dont care who calls me arrogant...i dont care who calls me ill-tempered...i dont care who considers me fake!! she's accepted me as i am....and i consider myself lucky to have found a friend in her...that too so early in life. i never had to embark on my quest to find a friend...she's always been there for me. quite literally 'cause she was there even before i'd realised her presence in my world...am lucky to be blessed with her friendship...thank you God! thank you Sushmi....love you buddy boo!!
Be it aaj or kal...the feeling of friendship never changes! In all the ages Friendship remains its same selfless caring self!